TECHNOLOGY AS INFLUENCES IN MY RELATIONSHIP- Liliana Maria Agudelo Castrillon -

technology as INFLUENCIES in my relationship

To believe that we can to live without technology is equivalent to doubt that tomorrow the sun will not rise in the east. Therefore it is better to learn to live with it and not be absorbed entirely by technological fashion. I think my relationship with my husband had been mediated by technology, he is electrical engineer, professor and technology is his passion. I have learned that is very necessary to have something of technology every day because is the best way to communicate with people, although my taste are the shoes, I prefer to buy shoes than electronic objects. I enjoy the technology when I can see the great achievements from my husband with his students, when they building robots and this can moving or when my husband give me his cell phone because he wants a new phone.

I think in the technological advances and I think that it’s will be a great way for doing our things in the future. I think about when we used a cell phone and we can to communicate in social network with everybody, we can to share photos, e-mails and we are sending information about our lives through Face book, what will be next invention technological for the communicate and other forms for help us in our Jobs or our life style?
My husband and I in our apartment we share a lot of things with technology like Nintendo Wii, a big TV with high technology, a computer and I can doing my domestic work because I have electrical machines like: Washing machine, micro oven, stove etc.

All those things are very good but we try not being absorbed for the technology. When we have problems or we discuss, always we are talking face to face  and we try to do feeling better each another.

I once read in a magazine that "Technology get advances, but Human stupidity is always the same ..." and I'm with the bittersweet taste of this sentence. We are always looking for the magic lamp that solves all problems, and I think technology is the magic lamp for the couples, that believing that to be in contact all the time with the technology that prevents unwanted situations and replaces the affective. This is the downside that I find in the technology,

Technology is amazing when experts can put a small chip on your pet for get identification.  Some persons consider it is invading the privacy of the animal, but for my pet is important have this chip.

So, with technology you have to be very cautious and careful in your moving because from love to hate there is one step, and extremely important information is lost for lack of direct contact such as attitudes, gestures, and tones context of what is said or written, which may lead to misinterpretation.

And worst thing is when people hide behind a nickname or even a dummy image to say and do thing related to his perversion. Many people are unaware that all our interests in social networks, chat, blogs and other are recorder and there is no way to make them disappear, at least not for common user. This information can be found through a simple search and used for against someone.